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“No” Doesn’t Always Mean No
“No” Doesn’t Always Mean No:
Strategies for Influencing Behavior and Winning Cooperation
Author: Kene Erike
Description: More sales. Stronger relationships. More confidence.
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“I want to be confident.”
“I want to make more money.”
“I want to talk to her, but I don’t know what to say.”
“Why don’t they respect me?”
More sales. Stronger relationships. More confidence.
We’ve all got hopes and needs.
Maybe it’s avoiding the regret of missed opportunities after not having the courage to talk to an attractive member of the opposite sex.
Or maybe you want to learn how to read body language, so you can tell whether she’s just being friendly or actually likes you, reducing the risk of potential embarrassment.
Maybe it’s creating business strategies that enhance client retention and generate sales—putting more money in your pocket.
It could be learning how to build stronger relationships with the people around—allowing you to be yourself and attract the people that like you for you.
For students, managers, and co-workers, it could be better brainstorming strategies for group project sessions that encourage everyone to contribute equally, instead of not pulling their weight and letting other group members—(read: you)—carry the load.
When you understand “why” people do what they do, success is that much easier.
“No” Doesn’t Always Mean No is a guide to understanding how everyday people think, act, and make decisions. You’ll learn strategies for growing a business, enhancing social intelligence, and boosting workplace performance.
Everybody likes confidence.
Good leaders ooze it and we all flock to it.
You can fake it for short periods of time, but that never lasts. You want confidence to be as natural as waking up in the morning—you don’t have to think about it; it just happens.
Confidence goes hand-in-hand with effective leadership. It isn’t “talking a good game” or being the loudest person in the room; introversion and confidence are not mutually-exclusive.
Confidence is the self-assurance that you’ve become someone that can be themselves and know that people will still be drawn to you. It’s a by-product of developing the skills and attributes that people want.
So, how do we build confidence?
We identify the skills most crucial to success for our goals and master them.
Mastery = higher self-esteem = more confidence.
For NFL Quarterbacks, coaches want players with the arm strength and accuracy to deliver passes while staring down a defense. Accordingly, prospective quarterbacks practice drills that develop these abilities.
It’s much easier to develop authentic confidence when you are armed with the right information.
“No” Doesn’t Always Mean No” provides the framework for building confidence at the office, the bar, and other venues where social skills are critical. You’ll learn how to overcome shyness and create your own solutions to problems with social interaction.
We sell every day.
When most people think of “sales”, they think of someone going to door-to-door selling steak knives or some huckster trying to recruit people into a pyramid scheme.
“Sales” is much broader than that.
Sales is encouraging others to accept an idea.
- a law office or advertising agency demonstrating their expertise to win new business.
- growing church membership or fundraising for a non-profit.
- a parent trying to get their kids to listen to them (and kids bargaining for later curfews and more freedom).
- what you do to impress employers during a job interview.
- finding the love of your life and getting married.
Without sales, nothing gets done.
Life is a series of negotiations. We are always selling.
Sales is the lifeblood of everything we do. It’s how you make the money to give your family the life they deserve, find the careers you love (instead of jobs that just “pay the bills”), and convince people to work with and commit to you.
Let’s peek inside the report:
Table of Contents
Section One: The Top Four Reasons You Fail to Get the Sale
Section Two: Seven Principles of Influence and the Formula for Changing Behavior
Section Three: Cognitive Functions of the Influence Process
Section Four: Intelligent Business Practices
Section Five: Managing Your Social Network
Section Six: More Strategies for Influencing People and Growing Your Business
Sources and Further Reading
At its core, persuasion is about the nuances of human psychology. It’s an appreciation of the
common biases and cognitive processes present in the human psyche. The same psyche that determines our
everyday choices–choices that can make (or break) your business or
organization. This book is not just for sales professionals and businesspeople; it is a valuable addition to any
library. Life is a continuous series of negotiations and challenges. A basic understanding of the principles of influence is an asset that no one should be
In this book, you will learn:
*The twelve desires that control how we think, act, and
make decisions *Why “no” doesn’t always mean “no”
and how to overcome initial resistance *How to make friends just by
“showing up” *The formula for changing human
fool–proof strategy charities use to solicit
donations (you can use it, too) *The four biggest reasons you fail to make the
sale *The single most important word for effective professional and social
networking *How to generate business using Behavioral
Economics *Three things you’re not doing that may cost you that dream
And much, much more.
Excerpts From The Report
Stop Costing Yourself Money: Skilled Negotiation
Is She Interested?: How To Read Female Body Language
Whether you’re looking to make more money, meet and attract the right people, or lead a team, “No” Doesn’t Always Mean No will teach you how to do it better.
Don’t take my word for it—
See what people are saying about the report:
–Alan E. Kligerman, CEO, AkPharma Inc.
” ‘Sales’ means far more than actually selling goods or services; it means making your points with
people in life in general. This is a very well-written book. The phraseology is good and flowing, it makes its points well and
is a pleasure to read.”
–Thomas Gilovich, professor of psychology at Cornell University and co-author of Why Smart People Make Big Money Mistakes and How to Correct Them
“The field of social psychology offers all sorts of useful information for managers, negotiators, parents, educators, and anyone (all of us, really) who deals with other people. Kene Erike has distilled quite a bit of this information in a clear and succinct summary that readers from many walks of life will find helpful-and enjoyable to boot.”
–Antoine Sylvia, IT Architect, IBM
“The information in this compelling book instantly helped me become more competitive in my sector.
Identifying and embracing emerging opportunities in the IT industry is the name of the game. The data in this book can be
applied across many industries; Kene clearly gets it.”
–Paul Carrick Brunson, Matchmaker, Author of It’s Complicated: A Modern Guide to Finding and Keeping Love, and Oprah Winfrey Network Contributor
“With all the game-playing and misinformation surrounding the dating game, finding love is hard enough. I’ve been setting up singles for years and know what it takes to find—and keep—love in the 21st century. Communication and shared commitment between partners are the biggest keys to lasting relationships. Half the battle is identifying the people most interested in you; the other half, putting your best “relationship” foot forward. “‘No’ Doesn’t Always Mean No” provides great assistance on both fronts.
Kene’s book explores the business game as well.
As the principal and founder of my own matchmaking and professional development agency, I understand how difficult it is to establish—and grow—a business. Soft skills are critical if you want to get anywhere. “‘No’ Doesn’t Always Mean No” is a thought-provoking read, invaluable for sharpening the skills you already have and developing a few new ones.”
No’ doesn’t always mean no? Is this book about forcing yourself on people?
Nope. Not even close.
The title underscores the importance of persistence and creativity, finding a way to solve problems.
There’s a scientific basis for the phrase as well (which I explain in the book):
Decisions we make represent decisions in that moment in time—not forever.
We may change our mind when faced with new information or our preferences change. For example, maybe you hated orange juice with pulp when you were a kid, but now, you won’t touch a glass of OJ unless it’s got pulp in it.
In this sense, “no” really doesn’t always mean no.
A controversial book title captures attention as well, and that has some value.
But Kene, why should I pay for this material? Can’t I just search the internet and get this for free?
You make the purchase for the same reason people eat at restaurants instead of at home…
You want the joy of the experience without the hassle of doing the prep work yourself.
Smart people understand the importance of paying for value.
They understand that life is short and there’s an opportunity cost to frivolous activity: instead of doing what you love to do, you’re wasting hours on something else.
You’ve got one life to live. Why pinch pennies instead of finding more productive uses of your time?
You’ve probably already spent a ton of time searching the internet for solutions to your problems, wading through contradictory, useless information. How many hours are you willing to waste scanning the web? Isn’t your time worth more than that?
Even Al Gore knows how fruitless certain online searches can be.
And he invented the internet.
But hey! It’s free, right?
You get what you pay for.
Time is money.
You’re not just buying a book: You’re buying peace of mind and the freedom to do something else besides spinning your wheels on the internet.
And you can always shoot me an email if you have a question.
It’s a no-brainer.
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Combo Deal: (Paperback, Digital Report, And Extras)
When you purchase the digital report (.PDF), I will throw in three additional popular digital formats for FREE.
More formats = better readability and convenience.
You’ll receive four (4) different formats of the report:
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That’s four products for the price of one. Instructions on how to read the report on an Apple iPad and Kindle are included as well.
When you purchase the report, I’ll throw in a special bonus item for FREE.
Distilled from empirical evidence and featuring real-world applications, “No” Doesn’t Always Mean No unveils the principles behind uncommon success.